I was adopted pre arranged at birth and after about a year and a half of having my son, I have suddenly started to get the itch to look into who my parents are. Are their any adopted folks on this board that have searched for and found their birth parents? I've researched the process but I have never spoken to anyone that has sought after. Advice? I am doing this without telling my adoptive parents as I don't think they would emotionally handle my choice very well.
